We had been going out for two months and 12 days. I had sex for the first time when I was 16. We'd been on holiday together, and realised that we got on really well. I've known him since I was eight and we've been friends for years. I've been going out with someone for the past year and eight months – that's a long relationship. Last year, a friend of mine didn't know how, so I showed her on a banana. It was nice learning slowly – so I didn't panic when I got my first period or started thinking about sex. She wanted to get to us before we refused to listen. I remember it being slightly embarrassing, but I'm glad she did it. My parents always wanted to make sure I knew everything I needed to know. When I was 10 and my sister was 11, my mum showed us how to use a condom: she demonstrated using a banana. They're quite shy about that kind of thing. I think they might not want me to look at it, but I'm not sure – we haven't talked about it. It's possible that my parents know I look at it on the computer at home, the one I share with my younger sister. I'd never buy a porn mag – why would you? It's all free on the computer. I first started using internet porn a couple of years ago. I'd find her on Facebook, add her as a friend and contact her like that. Most of the girls I meet are on Facebook, so I wouldn't take her number. If you get with someone, it means you kissed them, or made out with them – not that you slept with them. In my year group, of my friends who are boys, I'd say about 40% or 50% have had sex. Making out with girls at parties is much more what people – boys – aspire to. Having a girlfriend is more about commitment, and I don't think commitment is widely regarded as a cool thing. I think at our age, people get bored very easily – I don't really want a girlfriend at the moment. I think when you are in love, there is a certain feeling that you are not bored seeing someone. I didn't sleep with her – it would probably have to be with someone I actually really like.
I'd meet her at a park after school, once or twice a week: I wouldn't have said it was love, because we got bored after five or six weeks. The longest I've been with a girlfriend is two months. For teenage boys, it's all about what girls look like: if I was to kiss a girl who had got a good reputation, someone who does not get around, that would be more highly regarded. With all the communications people use, they will probably find out what you have done without you even having to tell them. You want people to know what you have done at the weekend – if you've met a girl, if you've kissed – but you want them to know without showing off. If you get with a girl at a party, then that gives you more man points, more ego points. For the moment, it's more about what you do at parties.
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